All through our lives, we make plans for our future and work hard to fulfill them. Getting the dream job or the coveted promotion, finding the right partner and building a life together, buying a house, bringing up kids, the list is virtually endless. We tackle all obstacles in our way to the best of our abilities and keep moving forward. However, a Cancer diagnosis can throw the entire life off-balance. Even if the cancer is treated, recurrence is always possible. Hence, life changes. This is also a time when the patient starts looking at the deeper aspects of life – spiritual, philosophical, religious, etc. Many questions cloud the mind like – What did I do wrong? What should I do now? What is the purpose of life? However, the most important aspect at this time is exploring what matters now!
Exploring What Matters Now
Well, first things first, accept the fact that you will need time to deal with your diagnosis and allow yourself that time. This is all a part of the healing process. Give up the hunt of the cause of the cancer – focus on accepting it first. Remember, a person who accepts his diagnosis, is eventually filled with hope – which has a positive impact on the treatment itself!
My religion is very simple. My religion is kindness.
Spirituality, in simple words, is the relationship between a human being and a power greater than himself/herself which can improve the quality of life. Now, spirituality can be broadly divided into two factors:
- Meaning/Peace factor – the meaning of life, purpose of existence, etc.
- Faith factor – finding strength or comfort in spiritual beliefs, etc.
According to a 2015 study, the meaning/peace factor of spirituality was found to be associated with an improved quality of life. Unfortunately, spirituality does not find place in conventional medicine practices. However, this is now changing with some hospitals developing spirituality programs to deliver compassionate care taking the spiritual force in consideration.
In a study done to understand the factors which predict that a cancer patient might outlive the prognoses, the following themes were found:
- A clear understanding of what was important in life
- A feeling of having the power to shape life around what was truly valued
- Acceptance of the life-altering situation
- Actions not solely dependent on how others would feel
The Importance of Joy
The psychology of happiness has the following six principles:
- Identity: Finding joy within yourself than in the outside world.
- Choice: Taking control of your happiness every single day.
- Abundance: Find out the abundance that can make you ecstatic.
- Healing forgiveness: Moving from a place of feeling broken to a place where you are okay.
- Relationship: Love and be loved.
- Now: Stop searching for happiness. Make every moment a happy moment.
If there is one thing certain about life – it is the end of life or death. While we can’t do much about that, we can certainly ensure that we make our life a joyous journey and keep our mind, body, and spirit happy.
The Importance of Hope
Here is the thing about Cancer – the best Oncologist in the world cannot say with absolute certainty that a particular patient can never be cured of cancer. Cancer is a disease where the world has seen more miracles than in any other. And, if we were to pint out to one aspect that can make the impossible-possible, it is Hope.
- Identify the elements in your current situation that are undesirable and how these can change
- Work towards bringing these changes into your life without losing the sight of a healthier, happier YOU.
- Meaning, purpose, joy and spirituality are all closely related concepts in human existence.
- Spirituality is distinct from religiosity. Spiritual care does not necessarily need to come from religious sources.
- Many patients are interested in including spiritual beliefs and practices in their medical and health approaches. Healthcare providers are generally less willing to do so.
- Spiritual health and well-being correlate with higher quality of life and may improve some symptoms, including anxiety, depression and pain.
- Receiving spiritual care may influence positive patient outcomes after a cancer diagnosis.
- Taking a spiritual history has been recommended by a Palliative Care Consensus Conference. The HOPE or FICA tools assists clinicians with such a history.
- Joy and laughter promote wellness and healing. We provide suggestions for increasing these in your life.
References & More Information
- Credit: Beyond Conventional Care Therapies
- ZenOnco.io Integrative Oncology Cancer Care
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